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The Love Haters by Katherine Center

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“The funny thing about the internet is that it is basically a collective hallucination. If you don’t join in, it doesn’t exist.”
― Katherine Center, The Love Haters

Katherine Center writes about resilience and struggle. Her characters may go through hardship, but they learn how to enjoy moments of grace amongst the chaos. Her latest novel, The Love Haters, talks about the lengths people will go to protect the ones they love.

Katie Vaughn’s job is in danger. Her boss is on a firing binge and as one of the newest hires, Katie is looking for a way to prove her worth. When one of her coworkers, Cole, comes to her with the opportunity to go to Key West and film a profile of Tom ‘Hutch’ Hutcheson, a Coast Guard rescue swimmer, as a recruitment video, Katie isn’t going to let the pesky fact that she doesn’t know how to swim stand in her way. Next thing she knows, she’s on her way to paradise to film Hutch and save her job.

When Katie first meets Hutch, she is shocked. He is absolutely gorgeous, but if what Cole says is true, Hutch is also a love hater. The more time Katie spends around Hutch, the harder time she has believing that Hutch is as negative as Cole says. He shows great feelings towards his rescue Great Dane and towards his aunt Rue. Katie has been burnt by love in the not-so-distant past though making her believe she may also be a love hater. With the help of her cousin, Katie details the parts of herself that she loves. As she spends more time with Hutch, the two develop a strong bond formed through swim lessons, impromptu conga lines, helicopter flights, filming sessions, and interviews. Katie is caught up from the very start in a series of lies started by Cole. Though she has multiple chances to tell the truth, she holds off, frightened by her past even though being in Key West has helped her become braver.

The Love Haters was an adorable read with some of my favorite tropes: forced proximity, grumpy x sunshine, and quirky side characters. What I loved about this book was that it wasn’t just a love story between characters, it was a story of acceptance between Katie and her body. Aunt Rue and her gal pals were some of my favorite characters, plus Hutch’s Great Dane! There is also a LOT of mentions of eating disorders and body image issues, so take that into account if you’re thinking of giving this a read.

This title is also available in large print, CD audiobook, Playaway Audiobook.

Full of Myself: A Graphic Memoir About Body Image by Siobhán Gallagher

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“To be a girl is to go from being an observer to being observed.”
― Siobhán Gallagher, Full of Myself: A Graphic Memoir About Body Image

Content warnings for this book: anxiety, depression, self-harm, and eating disorders/bulimia, fatphobia, sexual harassment

Siobhán Gallagher has had a complicated relationship with her body since a young age. She explores this relationship in her graphic memoir, Full of Myself: A Graphic Memoir About Body Image. Her journey to self-acceptance and self-love goes through many highs and lows, a roller coaster of emotions and actions that all influenced the person she has become today.

As a teenager, Siobhán struggles with anxiety and diet culture. Constantly comparing herself to others, Siobhán decides all her issues will be solved if she could just be beautiful and smaller. She struggles with her body for years, feeling alone and unwanted, slipping into long periods of depression and anxiety. As an adult, Siobhán isn’t any nicer to herself, but eventually realizes that the person her younger self wanted to be isn’t possible. She starts an arduous process of self-reflection, self-love, and understanding that she acknowledges will never fully end.

This book was eye-opening.  Seeing Siobhán put all of her emotions, inner thoughts, and experiences out for the world to read was heartwarming, helpful, and accessible. She takes readers through the mind of her teenage self, laying out her desperate thoughts and wishes to be tiny, happy, and not alone. While Siobhán’s story is unique to her, some readers may still find content to relate to as they read. This graphic memoir was engaging, the writing was frank, and the illustrations’ cartoon style was cute. The ending tied the book together as Siobhán spoke gently to her younger selves, giving them hope, while also being realistic that her body issues will never fully disappear. Anyone who grew up surrounded by diet culture will relate to Siobhán’s journey in some way.

“i’m proud of the person i’ve become because i fought to become her.”