{"id":42452,"date":"2023-02-06T06:00:06","date_gmt":"2023-02-06T12:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/?p=42452"},"modified":"2023-01-26T10:26:57","modified_gmt":"2023-01-26T16:26:57","slug":"no-romo-books-featuring-aromantic-characters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/no-romo-books-featuring-aromantic-characters\/","title":{"rendered":"No Romo &#8211; Books Featuring Aromantic Characters"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=2&amp;cn=1276821\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-46572\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/ladys-guide.jpg?resize=300%2C455&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"455\" \/><\/a>So in the last year I finally read <a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=2&amp;cn=1276821\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>The Lady&#8217;s Guide to Petticoats and Piracy<\/strong><\/em><\/a> (see <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/montague-siblings-series-by-mackenzi-lee\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">my love letter to Mackenzi Lee here<\/a><\/strong>). Aside from being an exciting adventure and a story of feminism and determination, it&#8217;s also a remarkable book because of the main character&#8217;s complete lack of interest in romantic relationships. She&#8217;s focused instead on her ambitions, her family, and her desire for true friends.<\/p>\n<p>What that captures (that most other books don&#8217;t) is something called &#8216;aromanticism&#8217;, which is the lack of romantic attraction to anyone. It&#8217;s not extremely common, but it does exist, and is often lumped in with asexuality, the lack of sexual attraction to anyone. For a nonfiction treatment of this broader topic, try the excellent book<a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=1&amp;cn=1361809\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong> Ace<\/strong> <\/em><\/a>by Angela Chen.<\/p>\n<p>There are some really great books featuring asexuality, including<a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=2&amp;cn=1247627\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong> Let&#8217;s Talk About Love<\/strong><\/em><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=1&amp;cn=1232322\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>Tash Hearts Tolstoy<\/strong><\/em><\/a>, and <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=1&amp;cn=1328578\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Beyond the Black Door<\/a><\/em><\/strong>, but in all these cases the main character still experiences romantic attraction. For similar characters who don&#8217;t have romantic attractions and\/or don&#8217;t pursue romance, you&#8217;ll want to try these titles:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=2&amp;cn=1249037\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>Before I Let Go<\/strong><\/em><\/a> by Marieke Nijkamp<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=1&amp;cn=1323136\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>Tarnished Are The Stars<\/strong><\/em><\/a> by Rosiee Thor<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/encore.searchmobius.org\/iii\/encore\/record\/C__Rb31953770\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Not Your Sidekick<\/a><\/strong><\/em> by C.B. Lee<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=2&amp;cn=1280728\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>Summer Bird Blue<\/strong><\/em><\/a> by Akemi Dawn Bowman<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/title.aspx?ctx=14.1033.0.0.7&amp;pos=1&amp;cn=1320065\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>Hazel&#8217;s Theory of Evolution<\/strong><\/em><\/a> by Lisa Jenn Bigelow<\/p>\n<p>Also check out our Libguide of similar books: <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/libguides.davenportlibrary.com\/c.php?g=1106052\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">No Romo: Great Books Without Romance<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So in the last year I finally read The Lady&#8217;s Guide to Petticoats and Piracy (see my love letter to Mackenzi Lee here). Aside from being an exciting adventure and a story of feminism and determination, it&#8217;s also a remarkable book because of the main character&#8217;s complete lack of interest<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/no-romo-books-featuring-aromantic-characters\/\">[Read more]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":45,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[10,5,1,8],"tags":[1835,5541,4494,2989,774,5424],"class_list":["post-42452","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books","category-read-a-likes","category-reference","category-staff-picks","tag-adventure-stories","tag-asexuality","tag-contemporary","tag-lgbtq","tag-science-fiction","tag-young-adult-books"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pd0CXx-b2I","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42452","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/45"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42452"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42452\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46607,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42452\/revisions\/46607"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42452"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42452"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42452"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}