{"id":30668,"date":"2017-04-18T06:00:51","date_gmt":"2017-04-18T11:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs2.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/?p=30668"},"modified":"2017-04-03T10:59:04","modified_gmt":"2017-04-03T15:59:04","slug":"hole-in-the-heart-bringing-up-beth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/hole-in-the-heart-bringing-up-beth\/","title":{"rendered":"Hole in the Heart: Bringing Up Beth by Henny Beaumont"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Henny Beaumont’s Hole in the Heart: Bringing Up Beth<\/strong> <\/a><\/em>was immediately relatable and bold in how it approached the subject of raising a child with a disability. This work of Graphic Medicine happens to be my first and it most certainly will not be my last. The editorial page notes that “For healthcare practitioners, patients, families, and caregivers dealing with illness and disability, graphic narrative enlightens complicated or difficult experience”. The are other titles in the Graphic Medicine series that may also interest you. Try The Bad Doctor: The Troubled Life and Times of Dr. Iwan James <\/a><\/em><\/strong>or My Degeneration: A Journey Through Parkinson’s.<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Having an interest in medicine, I was struck by the double-entendre in the title. “Hole in the Heart” works on a couple of different levels. Quite literally, a hole in the heart in this case refers to\u00a0an Atrioventricular Septal Defect (AVSD). Imagine the pain of giving birth to your child to discover that she likely has genetic heart problems that will require surgery.\u00a0 Figuratively, the initial sense of loss, pain, or despair you\u00a0experience is akin to having a hole in your heart. Even the subtitle “Bringing Up Beth” works on a couple of different levels. First, “bringing up” refers to raising someone from childhood to adulthood. Yet Beaumont is also bringing up the difficult subject of raising a child with special needs.\u00a0 How would you react if a doctor (with\u00a0the bedside rapport of a\u00a0chair)\u00a0approached you while you were holding your daughter for the first time only to inform you of the likelihood that she has Down’s Syndrome? And why does having Down’s Syndrome have to signify the sky falling or the end of the world? It simply does not.<\/em><\/p>\n

The beauty of this book, and like the experience of reading books in general, is that you will see Beth and other people with Down’s Syndrome through the eyes of Hen. Sympathy–perhaps even empathy–is one powerful way reading helps creating understanding between ourselves and others who are different than we are. In one particular scene, Hen is making small talk with acquaintances who tend to tip-toe around the subject (Beth), in order to avoid talking\u00a0about her as though\u00a0she’s some kind of\u00a0secret. Beaumont brilliantly pulls us into the conversation and shows us that referring to someone’s “Down’s baby” is disrespectful and callous. The appropriate and respectful way to refer to people with Down’s is exactly that: people who just happen to have Down’s.<\/p>\n

As Beth matures, her family must grapple with the challenges of inclusion and acceptance in the classroom and beyond. What does true inclusion look like? Beth’s sisters\u00a0joke that a school\u00a0will utilize a picture of a student with Down’s just to appear inclusive in promotional and marketing materials; but truly embracing acceptance and inclusion looks and sounds different. \u00a0In another scene, Hen looks forward to meeting with Beth’s teacher. Just as you think the teacher is about to compliment Beth on her own terms, she instead gloats about “how TOLERANT” Beth’s classmates are (as though its her ability to be tolerated that makes her noteworthy.) You see the problem here: defining a person in terms of how they can be useful or tolerable for others (rather than being innately\u00a0worthy in and of themselves)\u00a0is de-humanizing and plain wrong.<\/p>\n

I was working at the reference desk when I began discussing books with a patron. The topic of graphic novels came up. I mentioned that Hole in the Heart: Bringing Up\u00a0 Beth\u00a0 <\/em> was\u00a0 moving and that I cried while reading the last page of the book. The accompanying image (likely charcoal or pencil?) is beautiful–something many people can relate to. The patron looked perplexed. “You cried? ” <\/em>he asked. The picture and sentiment simply embodied love & acceptance. “I did”, I replied.<\/p>\n

If you’re skeptical that Graphic Novels can be emotionally complex and deeply moving, please read this book!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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