{"id":13974,"date":"2011-12-07T06:00:35","date_gmt":"2011-12-07T12:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs2.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/?p=13974"},"modified":"2011-11-30T12:02:35","modified_gmt":"2011-11-30T18:02:35","slug":"is-everyone-hanging-out-without-me-by-mindy-kaling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/is-everyone-hanging-out-without-me-by-mindy-kaling\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? by Mindy Kaling"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/searchresults.aspx?ctx=16.1033.0.0.1&amp;type=Keyword&amp;term=mindy%20kaling%20is%20everyone%20hanging%20out%20without%20me&amp;by=KW&amp;sort=RELEVANCE&amp;limit=TOM=*&amp;query=&amp;page=0\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-14157\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/mindykaling1.jpg?resize=200%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/mindykaling1.jpg?resize=200%2C300&amp;ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/mindykaling1.jpg?w=240&amp;ssl=1 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a>It&#8217;s hard to choose a favorite\u00a0supporting character on <em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/searchresults.aspx?ctx=1.1033.0.0.1&amp;type=Keyword&amp;term=the%20office%20steve%20carell%20videorecording&amp;by=KW&amp;sort=RELEVANCE&amp;limit=TOM=*&amp;query=&amp;page=0\" target=\"_blank\">The Office<\/a><\/strong><\/em>, but I consistently enjoy the self-absorbed airheadedness of Kelly Kapoor, played perfectly by writer and actress Mindy Kaling.\u00a0 So imagine my excitement when I found out that Mindy was about to release a book of humorous essays called <em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/searchresults.aspx?ctx=1.1033.0.0.1&amp;type=Keyword&amp;term=mindy%20kaling%20is%20everyone%20hanging%20out%20without%20me&amp;by=KW&amp;sort=RELEVANCE&amp;limit=TOM=*&amp;query=&amp;page=0\" target=\"_blank\">Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? And Other Concerns<\/a><\/strong><\/em>.\u00a0\u00a0In the book, Mindy tells stories about her childhood, how she dealt with living in New York\u00a0 in her 20s while trying to get discovered, and what it&#8217;s really like to work on <em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/searchresults.aspx?ctx=1.1033.0.0.1&amp;type=Keyword&amp;term=the%20office%20steve%20carell%20videorecording&amp;by=KW&amp;sort=RELEVANCE&amp;limit=TOM=*&amp;query=&amp;page=0\" target=\"_blank\">The Office<\/a><\/strong><\/em>.\u00a0 There are also a lot of funny and seemingly-random chapters on things like\u00a0&#8220;karaoke etiquette&#8221;, why she likes guys with chest hair\u00a0and her top eleven favorite comedic moments in film and TV.\u00a0 By the end, despite the fact that I was thoroughly entertained, I was mostly sad that Mindy and I aren&#8217;t best friends.\u00a0 She writes in such a laid-back, conversational tone and is so relatable despite her fame that it really feels like you&#8217;re chatting with one of your good friends.<\/p>\n<p>I find it hard to summarize books like this, so instead, here are a few of my favorite parts and things I learned:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Mindy wrote my two favorite episodes of <em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/searchresults.aspx?ctx=1.1033.0.0.1&amp;type=Keyword&amp;term=the%20office%20steve%20carell%20videorecording&amp;by=KW&amp;sort=RELEVANCE&amp;limit=TOM=*&amp;query=&amp;page=0\" target=\"_blank\">The Office<\/a><\/strong><\/em>:\u00a0 The Injury and The Dundies.\u00a0 If you haven&#8217;t seen these, go watch them as soon as you finish reading this so that you can be even more impressed with Ms. Kaling.<\/li>\n<li>Her views on romantic comedies:\u00a0 &#8220;I enjoy watching people fall in love on-screen so much that I can suspend my disbelief for the contrived situations that only happen in the heightened world of romantic comedies&#8230;.I simply regard romantic comedies as a sub-genre of sci-fi, in which the world created therein has different rules than my regular human world.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>One of my favorite chapters was the incredibly truthful &#8220;Best Friends Rights and Responsibilities&#8221;, a list of things your best friend is expected to do for you and vice versa.\u00a0 For example, &#8220;I will try to like your boyfriend five times&#8221; and &#8220;I must be 100% honest about how you look, but gentle&#8221;.<\/li>\n<li>Her big break was when Greg Daniels saw her perform in the off-Broadway play that she and a friend wrote called &#8220;Matt &amp; Ben&#8221;.\u00a0 Mindy played Ben Affleck.<\/li>\n<li>On being a chubby girl when she was young:\u00a0 &#8220;My mom&#8217;s a doctor, but because she came from India and then Africa, where childhood obesity was not a problem, she put no premium on having skinny kids. In fact she and my dad didn&#8217;t mind having a chubby daughter. Part of me wonders if it even made them feel a little prosperous, like &#8216;Have you seen our overweight Indian child? Do you know how statistically rare this is?'&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>And finally, to get herself through a workout on the treadmill, Mindy has to come up with elaborate revenge fantasies to pass the time.\u00a0 I won&#8217;t spoil them here, but trust me when I say this chapter is just as funny as it sounds.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This book inevitably gets compared to Tina Fey&#8217;s <strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/rivershare.polarislibrary.com\/search\/searchresults.aspx?ctx=1.1033.0.0.1&amp;type=Keyword&amp;term=tina%20fey%20bossypants&amp;by=KW&amp;sort=RELEVANCE&amp;limit=TOM=*&amp;query=&amp;page=0\" target=\"_blank\">Bossypants<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (another excellent book that you can read more about <em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/2011\/04\/bossypants-by-tina-fey\/\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a><\/strong><\/em>), and while Kaling and Fey are very different women, both have written laugh-out-loud books that I highly recommend.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s hard to choose a favorite\u00a0supporting character on The Office, but I consistently enjoy the self-absorbed airheadedness of Kelly Kapoor, played perfectly by writer and actress Mindy Kaling.\u00a0 So imagine my excitement when I found out that Mindy was about to release a book of humorous essays called Is Everyone<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/is-everyone-hanging-out-without-me-by-mindy-kaling\/\">[Read more]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,8],"tags":[612,524,165],"class_list":["post-13974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books","category-staff-picks","tag-comedians","tag-comedy","tag-humor"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pd0CXx-3Do","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13974","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13974"}],"version-history":[{"count":35,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13974\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14244,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13974\/revisions\/14244"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.davenportlibrary.com\/reference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}